Monday, April 07, 2008

Choosing the Moment to Lead

I found a great article that highlights a ministry skill that is often missing in young leaders. Young leaders who are driven by vision and passion often forget that others often need time to allow an idea to germinate and blossom before committing their personal resources.

I have found as a teacher that I will often spend weeks mulling over an idea in my head, then when I present it to a group I am surprised at an apparent lack of response immediately.

As I continue to mature as a leader I am learning the value of timing in addition to the quality of ideas.

Great leaders understand the importance of timing, specifically when it comes to making decisions. There are right times to consider issues and right times to make moves. Conversely, even the right issue tackled at the wrong time faces certain defeat.

There is no formula for great timing. It is part instinct, part intuition, part paying attention to surroundings, part prayer life, and all of the above. But it is not guesswork. Leaders who have a good sense of timing seem very wired into their situations while, at the same time, wired into God for a perspective that transcends just what the leader and his or her advisers can see.

Leaders adept at timing know how to read audiences and situations. They have practiced this over the years, testing out their hunches and intuitions. They have learned how to monitor their own internal sensors and when to pay attention to the voices around them and the voice within. Leaders with great timing know how to test the water, sniff the wind, and commit just enough to gauge reaction before committing it all. They risk, but they do not gamble.

Off the Agenda: Choosing the Moment to Lead

Wednesday, April 02, 2008

Using Parables: How to Teach Like Jesus

I found a good tool teachers can add to their toolbox. Read the quote below and if it prompts some interest, click on the source link for the full article (with some very helpful specifics).

Parables were the storytelling method of choice for our Lord. A parable can be defined as a brief story that can stand alone—like a self-contained module that appeals to the thinking and attitudes of its hearers. There are other ways to tell stories, of course, but I want to focus here on the parable telling (or storytelling) of Jesus. I see them as one and the same, because parables are a particular kind of story.

Using Parables: How to Teach Like Jesus | Building Small Groups

Tuesday, April 01, 2008

Ten Questions for Ministry Leaders about Relationships

Here is another set of great reflection questions for ministry leaders. ISOLATION is not good...God designed us to live in community!

  • Are the people closest to me in ministry lifting me higher or dragging me down?
  • How have I intentionally developed the leaders around me in the past week?
  • Am I speaking transparently with at least two other close trusted friends on a weekly basis?
  • Am I submitting myself to the correction and coaching of at least two mentors?
  • Am I holding a grudge against someone?
  • Am I speaking well of other ministers?
  • Am I falling for the temptation of comparing, complaining, criticizing or gossiping?
  • Are my words and relationships characterized by words of faith or negativity?
  • Do people enjoy being around me or am I often “down”?
  • Have a made at least three new ministry friends in the last year?
  • LifeChurch.tv : swerve

    Ten Questions Every Leader Should Ask about His/Her relationship with Christ

    I found the following list from a pastor of a mega-church in another state. I think his reflections questions are good for every ministry leader in any size church.

  • What did I learn in God’s word this week?
  • Is my burden for prayer growing or diminishing?
  • Does my heart break for the things that break the heart of God?
  • Have I grown accustomed to or accepted sin in my life?
  • Am I doing ministry out of an overflow of God’s work in my heart or out of my own strength?
  • Has my teaching and ministry deepened, changed, or evolved in a positive way in the last year?
  • Do I have a sincere peace that I’m living an authentic life of spiritual integrity?
  • Is my heart growing larger for people and God or is it shrinking?
  • Am I closer to God today than I was a year ago?
  • Do others comment that they can clearly see evidence of God’s work in my life?
  • Ten Questions Every Leader Should Ask at LifeChurch.tv : swerve

    Saturday, March 22, 2008

    How well do you know yourself?

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    A fuller knowledge of yourself allows you to naturally work from your strength and intentionally seek the Holy Spirit's control of your weaknesses.